Being from a minority group makes life a little harder to navigate than for the privileged counterpart. You are not clearly represented in the groups you work or belong. The prototypes of beauty are not similar to people like you. The stories portrayed in school books or movies do not contain your story. A particular religious practice is blatantly favored in schools but yours is not anywhere to be seen or even mentioned. Food is seen as a souvenir, yet those foreigners who make them are seen as “less than”. But their food is good! There are so many ways in which being a minority can be difficult. However, it can make it even more challenging when politicians and leaders target groups like yours. This is a denial and prohibition to embrace who you are and one of the ultimate acts of rejection a minority group can experience to their sense of self. In today’s political climate, many who have already experienced daily microaggressions (due to their country of origin, ethnicity, skin color, religion and spiritual practices, sexual orientation or gender expression and identity), might feel like everything they have signaled as discrimination is now manifested in its greatest form. It is a nightmare coming true. The challenge still remains as many cannot perceive their privilege even when its blatantly obvious and offensive. If these acts of exclusion are going unnoticed, condoned without consequences, met with celebration and conquer and treated as a political taboo not to be discussed, how can you expect to feel safe? As you try to wrap your mind around these recent political events, fear and hopelessness can take over. The question of, “What is next?”, might become your mantra and the ideal of freedom and equality for all might succumb to a mere fantasy. I say, “Don’t succumb to fear”. Our ancestors here and abroad fought difficult battles in order to leave us a little better than they were once. We certainly have a lot of work to do but have had many victories and celebrations. Many of our mentors are not with us anymore because they passed away or we departed ways, but they still left in us the essence of the fight and resistance we need to have amidst adversity. I propose that at those times of fear, rage and disbelief, to hold into the memory of the many who helped you to be here today fighting for freedom, liberty and justice. Hold into the memory of those who inspire you. Their presence remains here with you as you hold your ground. Stay in touch with your feelings and notice them as what they are, your way of coping with the unknown, rather than a feeling that controls you....And speak up. Speak up and trust your words will be heard by those who need to hear your voice for their own healing, by those who will learn it is heroic to speak up in spite your fear. Speak up and trust your words will be heard by those who still get uncomfortable with your bravery by those who still feel you have no right to do so Speak up and trust your words will be heard and our voices together will echo the fact that we are different and unique and that is a good thing Speak up and trust your words will be heard and treasured by ancestors and past generations who would have loved to see what you have become what you have accomplished in spite of...in spite of. “Continue to embrace the things that make you unique, even if it makes others uncomfortable....And whenever you feel in doubt, whenever you want to give up, you must always remember to choose freedom over fear.” –Janelle Monae |
AutorMerari E. Fernández Castro, Archives
November 2020
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